Soulmate Secret: Fundamentals of Being in Love

By: Lorii Abela

Perhaps at some point in your life you ponder upon the meaning of love. You might wonder why for some people it seems fairly easy to find love while for others the chance of finding a soulmateis quite nil. Are there some bases to follow like the so-called fundamentals of being in love? Well, some may say you are just lucky when you are successful at the thing called love. Although this is possible especially in fairytales, you definitely would like to review some keys on how to find your true love.

How to Find True Love?

Be in Love with Yourself

Yes, be in love with yourself! I am not saying that you turn into a narcissist person? Love actually starts from within and that means it should come from you first. Learn to appreciate yourself and accentuate the good points that you love about yourself. Do the things you love to do that are worthwhile and those that contribute to your self-improvement. In time these will reflect in the way you live your life and relate to others. You will be surprised it is then easier to find love with you bearing this kind of outlook.

Don’t Panic!

You think you are getting older and still single? You are absolutely not alone, so do not try to force love. Have you noticed that the more you force it the farther it slips away? It is because the law of attraction for love does not work this way. So do not be like the one who always thinks of ways or focuses on looking for a soulmate all the time. Mind you, when you are ready, naturally love will show up.

Love is not Always a Bed of Roses

It is quite impossible to never encounter any conflict in a relationship. This is actually part of it since the two of you are not exactly alike. You have different personalities, backgrounds, opinions, etc. So there is the possibility of getting hurt. To work things out both of you need to compromise. When problems arise cooperation is very important as well.

Define Your Expectations Clearly

The way you show your love to your partner may be very different from the way he expresses it. This is a fact that you should accept. Do not then expect to be loved the way you love since basically everyone has their own way of showing their love.

Happily Ever After

Not all love last for a lifetime. If you have to part, just acknowledge that your relationship in some period of time have clicked for a reason. Sure, you have done all the best that you could to keep that loving feeling and save your relationship. If it has to end, then it ends. Remind yourself then that true love lasts and if your relationship did not last as you had hoped for, then most probably it was not meant to be. You must have learned your lesson by now and continue to move on.

True love lasts so do not be discouraged since in time you will definitely find the one that’s written in the stars for you.

Enjoy the search and the goodluck! Use these tips to leverage on how to find the girl for you. You can get more information on how you can find love by visiting http://www.manifestingmydestiny.com Be sure to take advantage of the 6 Day Free E-mail Mini-Course.

Lorii Abela is a Law of Attraction Practitioner and Finding True Love Coach for expatriates. She herself has manifested her match in 30 days through a process that she now teaches. Discover her secrets to finding true love by visiting http://www.manifestingmydestiny.com  Lorii is available for coaching, speaking engagements and consultancy.

Attract Men by Being Mysterious

By: Lorii Abela

After a hard day’s work, you sit back and relax with a romance novel. You are just too tired to go out with friends on the weekends. You particularly do the same things everyday following your daily routine. You have noticed some of your friends are getting married or in several relationships, may be casual or long term. You can’t particularly do the same things for a long period of time or your life will be boring, so suddenly it occurs to you that you want some change and then you start telling yourself, “I want a boyfriend too.” Of course you can, but you have to definitely change the way you think and your lifestyle needs a bit of tweaking as well since you can never have a boyfriend by just relaxing with a romance novel after a hard day’s work. You need to go out on weekends and meet all those pleasant people you can meet. You might ask yourself how you will find a boyfriend. How to be attractive to men is not a difficult thing to do as long as you know some of the guideline to attract men. You can actually attract men by being mysterious.

How is it possible to attract men by being mysterious?

Most women think that attraction is totally based on attributes or physical appearance. Contrary to this, generally what most women do not know is that the ability to combine both the serious and the fun and doing it in a way that is unpredictable is what attracts a guy for the most part and makes him stay wanting for more. When you are unpredictably funny and sassy it is a plus point for attraction. When it is paired with something serious, it is a surefire complete attraction that creates some kind of mystery which will definitely make him stay with you. This simply makes you desirable and memorable since you keep him guessing what your next move is which practically signals that you are not boring to him. Also, if you can have a demeanor that is somewhat aloof which shows you can stand without him and you are not trying to impress him, this will give him the challenge to prove his worth to you.

How can you be mysterious to him?

• Be unpredictable- do varied things. Have a bit of mystery and surprises since these will keep his interest.
• Do not be available all the time. If you seem to be keeping tabs on him, he might think you are a stalker or pathetic. Give him the space he needs. When he makes a call, do not be there to answer right away just like you are waiting for him to call.
• Have different plans occasionally. Occasionally, meet up with your girlfriends. Do not change your plans in his favor whenever he asks you out. Do not say “yes” right away all the time.
• Do not tell him everything. Avoid telling him everything about yourself, particularly on the first date, or else there is no more left to find out about you.
• Tackle on new topics when talking to each other. Avoid the mundane and usual topics such as his life, job, etc. that ordinarily what most people talk about. New topics are always good to keep the conversation interesting.

Enjoy the search and the goodluck! Use these tips to leverage on how to find the girl for you. You can get more information on how you can find love by visiting http://www.manifestingmydestiny.com Be sure to take advantage of the 6 Day Free E-mail Mini-Course.

Lorii Abela is a Law of Attraction Practitioner and Finding True Love Coach for expatriates. She herself has manifested her match in 30 days through a process that she now teaches. Discover her secrets to finding true love by visiting http://www.manifestingmydestiny.com  Lorii is available for coaching, speaking engagements and consultancy.