By: Lorii Abela
Before you ask how you can find love, there is something you need to know about women.
When you approach women, they are into this unconscious habit of putting you into categories even if you have not done or said anything yet. These categories can indicate where your chances of getting her stand and holds true even in cross cultural relationship or expat dating.
Categorization is a kind of a per-judgmental tendency which proves all the more how finding a soul mate can be so grueling.
Now you may ask yourself how you can find love despite this annoying habit of women. The answer is pretty simple – understand this habit and work through it.
For you to fully understand these various categories and thus make your quest in finding a soul mate a little less exhausting, let’s tackle each category’s weaknesses and strengths.
First Category: She likes you.
She likes you because you share a resemblance with someone she likes, because you dress in a way that she thinks attractive or because of anything that she happened to have an attachment with.
This will give you a certain edge over everyone but taking this simple liking to a higher level basically and totally depends on you. This can be one of the greatest things that can happen to you. However, if you are the average type of guy, you can only expect this kind of thing happening about 10% of the time.
Second Category: She doesn’t like you.
At one point in the course of finding a soul mate, you have probably come across someone and just didn’t like them without any apparent reasons. Women experience this kind of instances too, only that they sometimes account it to your lack of self-confidence or to just any other petty reason.
If you are one of those men who lack confidence in themselves, it’s reasonable to expect this kind of situation happening about 10% of the time. Sadly though, once a woman has already made up her mind about you, it becomes irrevocable unless of course you have things going on like one gorgeous ex still running after you or an overwhelming richness.
Third Category: She is undecided.
Average guys fall under this category about 80% of the time. If you belong to the average type of guys, this can actually come as a good thing for you as chances are, you can still work your way through making her like you.
One good way to start is to un-clutter your life. Having a life that is in order will enable you to exude an aura of confidence which can be very beneficial once you’ve finally decided to continue searching for a soul mate.
Who knows, your self-confidence might even take you beyond things. You finally may be able to come up to a prospective partner and ask her for a cup of coffee or dinner.
Enjoy the search and the goodluck! Use these tips to leverage on how to find the girl for you. You can get more information on how you can find love by visiting http://www.manifestingmydestiny.com Be sure to take advantage of the 6 Day Free E-mail Mini-Course.
Lorii Abela is a Law of Attraction Practitioner and Finding True Love Coach for expatriates. She herself has manifested her match in 30 days through a process that she now teaches. Discover her secrets to finding true love by visiting http://www.manifestingmydestiny.com Lorii is available for coaching, speaking engagements and consultancy.