Soulmate Secret: Looking for a Soulmate

By: Lorii Abela

Have you been looking for a soulmate? Well, you are not alone since women are predisposed to this age- old idea that is quite associated with the question about how to find true love. However, time and again you have been wondering why is it that when you thought you had almost found your soulmate then it just slipped away. Perhaps you have been holding on to the past for quite some time after your breakup. Shy away from your ex since he belongs to the past that should be forgotten. Only then you will be able to move on and eventually finding a soulmate is not something that you should worry about anymore.

Shy Away from Your EX

Create Some Space

Being friends with your ex is not a problem as long as you know how to draw the line between being friends and being in love once. You do not want to be associated together as if you are still lovers since that would definitely defeat the purpose of your looking for a soulmate. The bottom line is you need to create some space to be able to close the doors of the past between you and your ex. How can your potential soulmate approach you if are still together with your ex? Besides your ex is not the only friend you can have around.

Create a Closure

There is nothing more liberating than putting the past behind between you and your ex and forgiving him. It is absolutely useless to relive the past when you have the future ahead of you to meet that new special someone with more confidence and applying the lessons you’ve learned from your past relationship that way you don’t make the same mistakes again. The freedom from emotional baggage that you get from forgiving your ex will permeate through you and exude a positive energy. Then before you know it, a new person shows up and more often than not when you least expect it!

Start with a Clean Slate

Moving on includes cleaning up your place of anything related to your past relationship. Get rid of those memorabilia anything from letters, pictures, stuffed toys, to presents including those cute gift wrappers with your favorite design, that is if you’re the sentimental type, if not a pack rat. You do not want to go back to those moments when you received those while enjoying a conversation with your new mate who has dropped by your place for dinner. You should prepare space for a new relationship so clean the energy surrounding you.

Ready Yourself for the New Love of Your Life

The common mistake most make after a breakup is to look for a new relationship right away to get over. But that is not how it should be since you are compromising your new relationship this way. Without completely moving on, chances are you would have the tendency to compare your past relationship with the new one which is not good or end up talking about it with your new partner which is absolutely a no-no.  Perhaps you have done too much thinking about your ex and you are definitely done with it. Move on, give yourself some time and open yourself up to a new love.

Enjoy the search and the goodluck! Use these tips to leverage on how to find the girl for you. You can get more information on how you can find love by visiting http://www.manifestingmydestiny.com Be sure to take advantage of the 6 Day Free E-mail Mini-Course.

Lorii Abela is a Law of Attraction Practitioner and Finding True Love Coach for expatriates. She herself has manifested her match in 30 days through a process that she now teaches. Discover her secrets to finding true love by visiting http://www.manifestingmydestiny.com  Lorii is available for coaching, speaking engagements and consultancy.

Are You Ready To Date?

By: Lorii Abela

Are you ready to date? But before knowing whether you are or not, let’s first know what dating is all about. Dating generally refers to doing some activities together in public as a way of determining if the two of you are compatible which can gradually develop into a casual relationship or a long term relationship. Well, then it is very important to identify what you exactly want. Are you looking for a casual relationship or a long term relationship? Both kinds of relationships are quite different from each other and for you to be able to maximize your dating experience, you must be able to determine beforehand what you really want. That way your expectations are met and you get the feeling of joy out of dating in the sense that it can help you have a better relationship by making it work since you know what to expect from such kind of relationship. Let us now differentiate the two kinds of relationships.

What is a casual relationship and what to expect from it?

• Usually a casual relationship has very few expectations.
• It is common to those who just had a break up and who is not ready to get into something serious again.
• It is convenient to those who cannot commit to a relationship that is serious for reasons related to work such as those working in shift hours or more than the regular hours.
• It is for those who just prefer to experience some fun and something “laid back.”
• It can mean meeting an ex-lover again but on a casual level. 
• There is no “emotional ties” between the two of you.
• It can also mean meeting another person since this is not exclusive to just one person.
• It can mean not seeing of each other that much and just seeing as it suits you both.

What is a long term relationship and what to expect from it?

• There are more expectations if not a lot to be met to make your relationship work and last.
• A long term relationship is the kind of relationship which is serious.
• There is a commitment involved between the two of you which is a very important factor in this kind of relationship.
• Trust is an important factor in this kind of relationship to keep it working.
• Love and care are the two emotions that bond both of you, so it is important for both to feel loved and cared for in this relationship.
• There is a commitment involved so you need time for each other, to be there for each other when you need it both.
• This is a serious kind of relationship and thus it is exclusive to just one person, so you cannot meet another person.

Enjoy the search and the goodluck! Use these tips to leverage on how to find the girl for you. You can get more information on how you can find love by visiting http://www.manifestingmydestiny.com Be sure to take advantage of the 6 Day Free E-mail Mini-Course.

Lorii Abela is a Law of Attraction Practitioner and Finding True Love Coach for expatriates. She herself has manifested her match in 30 days through a process that she now teaches. Discover her secrets to finding true love by visiting http://www.manifestingmydestiny.com  Lorii is available for coaching, speaking engagements and consultancy.