Finding a soulmate has been a life-long dream to many. How good would it be if you have found that person who can be your perfect match? That can mean living with someone you feel a strong connection to, and someone you can be your own self with. You could have looked everywhere, but have not succeeded. You could have explored all the places you can imagine in your quest of finding a soulmate and yet, you found no one. Everyone is just too familiar, too uninteresting, and too normal.
You see your friend, or colleague, and you felt no strong feelings towards her. You might have been looking for something new and extraordinary. You could feel hopeless already, but you should not stop with just the boundaries of your neighborhood or your place of work. Finding a soulmate has no limitations. Delve deep into the unexplored, and do not be afraid to try something new; whatever that means for you. For some, it can also be trying to date an older woman.
Men are naturally attracted to older women because men have the never-ending need to be taken cared of, and older women have all the experience in nurturing from their past relationships: ex-boyfriends, husbands, and children. Older women are more matured, independent and confident. They know what they want, and they get what they want.
Dating an older woman has now become normal to men, and you should not be ashamed to date an older woman. Though, of course, going out with an older woman may be intimidating at first, but it gets fun as you go along. And also, dating an older woman has its pros and cons.
Since an older woman has more experience and more knowledge, she may think that she is better than you so she is often in control and tries to manipulate you. Another issue would be her past baggage. Because behind those experiences in life, she has once thought that her quest for finding a soulmate has ended, and yet, she thought wrong. Your friends may tease you for dating an older woman which may have apending divorce and a tag-a-along child, and you have to be ready for that.
On the good side, however, your present relationship with an older woman may benefit from her experiences from her past. She very well knows what she wants, and she makes sure that you know it too. She is independent and does not require attention from you from time to time. She speaks her mind and you can forget the trouble of decoding what she really thinks.
Moreover, while attracting an older woman is exciting, doing the first moves may not be that easy. It requires your effort and determination to win an older woman’s heart. You should find a woman who is interested in dating a younger man. And if you already have a date with, do not fret. Here are some helpful tips to get you moving.
- Be yourself. She is with you because she likes you. Nothing beats being you. Show how fun and exciting it is to be with you.
- Take her to a place she has never been before. Tour her in your neighborhood; take her to your favorite indie music bar, or to a concert, or that new fascinating restaurant.
- Be well-conversed. An older woman is a smart woman. For her, a guy who can talk about almost about anything is a smart guy.
- Display spontaneity. Make spur-of-the-moment night outs. Take her by surprise by asking her to go skydiving with you.
- Do not compare her to your ex. Not only that it will make her feel bad, it is also rude. You should know that every woman is different.
- Posses the same passion for life as she has. Be confident of who and what you are.
- Take things slow. Remember that if she has failed finding a soulmate once, and she would rather take one step at a time now than fail again.
Dating an older woman may seem to be complicated but you must be willing to accept these complications if you are interested in dating her. And you can never tell if your goal of finding a soulmate will end with her.
Enjoy the search and the goodluck! Use these tips to leverage on how to find the girl for you. You can get more information on how you can find love by visiting http://www.manifestingmydestiny.com Be sure to take advantage of the 6 Day Free E-mail Mini-Course.
Lorii Abela is a Law of Attraction Practitioner and Finding True Love Coach for expatriates. She herself has manifested her match in 30 days through a process that she now teaches. Discover her secrets to finding true love by visiting http://www.manifestingmydestiny.com Lorii is available for coaching, speaking engagements and consultancy.