Getting out of your comfort zone is EXCITING and SCARY. But, it's honestly the ONLY way to get more out of your life.
What
are you waiting for? You can create anything you want in life. I know
this for a fact because I used to be a scared, depressed, divorced,
broke single mom who had been married to an alcoholic abusive man. I
escaped all of that drama to create a dream life. No, it's not ALL
perfect but it is dreamy. I've healed from the past and made peace with
my ex. My daughter has even told me that she finally realized that I
really did the right thing to leave her dad. This was big. Was it
easy? No. Was it worthwhile? YES. Back then, I didn't even know what a
healthy relationship looked or felt like. I just knew that it wasn't
what I had and no amount of therapy sessions was going to change that.
The
first step to creating Magic in YOUR LOVE LIFE is accepting where you
are right now. Where ever you are at is JUST fine. Really. Don't make
yourself wrong or even right. It is what it is and you can always
improve.
The
second step is to use what Jack Canfield of Chicken Soup for the Soul
fame, calls the RULE OF FIVE. That is doing 5 different things per day
or per week. I vote for 5 per day. These new actions can be quite small
but as the book: The Slight Edge advocates...success doesn't happen
over night and neither does failure but every day that you take one
positive action builds over time. Which will it be for you? Actions
that take you down a bad path or ones that take you closer to your goals
and dreams?
Let
me suggest some actions to take that can dramatically impact your LOVE
LIFE for the positive. Just by taking them on you will feel more in
charge of your life.
1.
Before you get out of bed in the morning. Imagine a photo or a short
video of you in love. What would it feel like? How would your day be
different? If you journal write this down.
2.
Forgive someone from your past. Remember that guy/gal who did you
wrong? Just mentally say to your self (Extra points for saying it out
loud.) Jack, I forgive you for not......
3. Smile at 3 more people than normal each day. Just smile and nod.
4. Give 3 more compliments per day to the man or woman in your life. (If you are single, compliment a stranger.)
5.
Ask your partner what would need to happen to make them happier in
their life? then be a good listener. If you are single: ASK YOURSELF
and journal this.
i
realize that doing these kinds of things will take you out of your
comfort zone but the truth is that you really aren't all that
comfortable in that comfort zone either.
I
am here to support you if you need a nudge or even a shove. I love to
coach people who are ready to leave a life they don't like anymore in
favor of a juicy new life. The good news is that you don't have to do
it all alone.
Remember,
that I used to be a depressed, scared, broke, single mom, so who better
to support you than someone who has been there and done that and
dramatically altered their own life. For the record: I moved from Ohio
to California. I now live with an incredible view of the ocean with my
sweetheart and my dog Romeo. My daughter is grown and happy. My
relationship books have been on best seller lists. I love working with
my clients and they love me. And...I get to do more of what I love
including writing and playing more harp music. Check out my harp music
and my Soulmate meditation set to harp music at http://www.MySpace.com/AlmostHeavenHarp
E-mail
me if you think you might be ready to get out of your UN-comfort Zone
and work with a coach to create more magic in your life. No pressure or
anything, but if you feel a certain calling inside of you for a better
life and you think that you might be ready for an intuitive results
oriented seasoned coach then you will take the next step. If not, just
continue reading my posts and watching my videos as much as you like.
xoxo Susan Bradley Susan@MyDramaFreeRelationship.com
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