Dating Someone with No Common Interests

By: Lorii Abela

Dating has to be fun and worthwhile and this entirely depends on how you are getting along with the other person. Dating someone with no common interests can also be exciting that is if you are open to the possibility of dating someone who has interests that are quite different from yours. Having common interests is actually one of the keys to a fulfilling and lasting relationship; however, it requires time for you to be able to know if you have the same interests or not. One way to know is to date someone. Finding your match would not be that hard if you already have some guidelines.

Set a standard to gauge compatibility

Know what you want in finding a soulmate

Aside from saving you time, having a “wish list” is convenient and clear. Before dating, it is actually healthy to identify the core characteristics you wish your ideal mate to have. This should be considered as something important since from the outset you are able to identify and be sure of what you want. Without knowing this, you might settle for someone who is just available and wind up making choices you would regret later.

Do not accept someone who does not meet your “wish list”

Learn to say no if the core characteristics you have in your list are not present in this person who suddenly shows up in your life. If those interests you expect from an ideal mate are not typical of him, then most likely you have not found your match yet.

Give chance

If the person and you have something in common but not all of the characteristics in your wish list, do not say no right away especially if the things you do not have in common are not among your top non-negotiable. Law of attraction relationships usually start from this.

Never try to change a person

Do not insist on forcing and changing a person. No amount of intimidation will work. Changing a person is always a futile attempt unless that person is also willing to change but then again change is really up to the person. How much you understand the person and his characteristics is all that matters.

Some relationships are smooth. Is it because both actually love each other? But other relationships are rocky you can’t explain why. Is it because both have no common interests?  Actually, both love and common interests are essential in every lasting relationship.

Enjoy the search and the goodluck! Use these tips to leverage on how to find the girl for you. You can get more information on how you can find love by visiting http://www.manifestingmydestiny.com Be sure to take advantage of the 6 Day Free E-mail Mini-Course.

Lorii Abela is a Law of Attraction Practitioner and Finding True Love Coach for expatriates. She herself has manifested her match in 30 days through a process that she now teaches. Discover her secrets to finding true love by visiting http://www.manifestingmydestiny.com  Lorii is available for coaching, speaking engagements and consultancy.